For those of you who are active in the “mom groups” on Facebook, please help me find the answer to this question….
So the groups are there on Facebook to help other moms who feel lonely, find new friends for their kids to have playdates and also the parents to make friends…right??
Or am I wrong and completely missing something…???
But, for the sake of this post, let’s just say that finding friends for yourself and your kids is the actual intended purpose of those groups.
Why the fuck are all of the moms/dads/grandparents/etc. in those groups so fucking judgemental!! Like if you disagree with the smallest thing someone in the group says, all of a sudden you’re not either kicked out of the group and blocked completely or they treat like the metaphorical “red headed step child”…?
Like how is anyone supposed to make friends if every time you disagree about the smallest thing they talk to you and treat you like you are the most horrible person in the universe??
Is the point not to actual make real friends? Are the groups there to just give other people a window to criticize other people? Like am I seriously just picking the wrong groups or am I seriously missing something?
If you’ve got the answer or can offer some help, feel free to let me know in the comments section. I’d really LOVE LOVE LOVE it!